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Bawarchii

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Its been 2 years....Ma GrandPa ledanna fact nenu digest cheskolekapothunna....

Pre 2016...oka 15 years varaku aina daggariki vellaledu...chudaledu..due to some family issues and...nenu studies/job trails valla dhooram ga undatam oka karanam....

Post 2013 he asked many times to come and meet....but appudu edo daridrapu trance lo undi vellaledu...last ki 2017 lo vellanu...somehow i disappointed with our family issue matter by my grandma uttering and i got frustrated on that...

But his last desire is to see my marriage...appatiki marriage vachhina...nenu ma vallau inka well settled avvaledu anna inko trance lo serious tiskoledu....

okkasari ma thaatha thapathrayam and na marriage chudalanna desire valla...although it a perfect age to get married...eppudu lenidi..oka 10 sambandhanlu chusanu..andulo naku okka ammai nachhindi kani migithavallu nachhaledu...ala oka 3 months baga try chesa..edo vidhamga nachhina matches pending paduthuney unnai aa 4 months...lo..

Nenu anni years tharvatha vellinappudu...i thought he is fine except his worry..ma babai leranna baadha thappa...

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naku from 2018...i am not able to become normal...daily konni 1000 times convince chesukunna...idi na fault aa vellaledu ani...aa time ki peeli set cheskoledu ani..inka konni days gadapaledhu anna aa thought nannu chala haunt chesthundi...

morning lechinappatinundi...padukuneyvaraku..deni pai focus undatla till date...and even dreams lo kuda..
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Everyone had a good time with him except me in the family....childhood lo i had very sweet memories and good times with him...later part a big NO and dissapointment
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Please suggest me and help me...how to comeout of this trance....

na valla kavatledu...


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I can understand your situation as even I was very close to my grandfather a lot. 1.5 years back expire ayyaru. Ippatiki gurthu vasthuntaru sudden ga. I just take two mins break, look into the sky and think about the best times we had and say 'enjoy with Rambha till we meet thatha'(I know its too filmy but what to do, we both are big movie buffs)

Coming to your situation, none can predict the future bro. In hindsight, we feel so many things but avanni consider cheyalemu ga. Don't worry about it, would your grandfather be ok to see you suffer like this? Meeku nachina ammayi kalisinappudu pelli chesukondi. Who knows, he may come back as your son (Filmy again, I know). Final ga, I know its difficult but just get over. Baaga gurthu vachinappudu edcheyandi and let it go. Cheers [thumb][smile]
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Ee subject lo bothiga idea ledhu .. adjacent experience ledhu .. so can't help bawarchi thammi
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me thathayya eppati ki nethone untaru bro ninnu chusthu untaaru ayana blessings epudu metho untai ayana neeku physical ga dhooram ayaru not mentally he is with you only dont worry my dear bro everything will go fine.
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No matter what u do u can't change past bro.... Nv past lo aah time ki, aah situation ki certain decisions tiskunnav ( like not spending time with him, not marrying etc ) which are absolutely right for that situation. Nv guess cheyalev kadaa anthaa fast ga chanipothaaru ani, its not in ur control , there is absolutely no reason to feel guilty. Neeku before hand ilaa avtundi ani telisunte , probably u might have acted differently.
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Present lo ala evariki duram kakunda undu mama..parents, family, friends..look after them, malli inko regret undakudadu
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Thanks for your valuable opinions.. Bros
@Edookati @celluloid Scintist @Quiala
@Vasco @Python...

Bawarchii

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Calling Gulabi and others..for there inputs
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Eeroje matlada maa thathayya tho....
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Thanks for your valuable opinions.. Bros
@Edookati @celluloid Scintist @Quiala
@Vasco @Python...

stay strong bro
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stay strong bro



trying  a lot bro..m missing myself...oka 2 years back life lo prathi moment lo undeyvadini..sucess aina failure...aina..ippudu m missing myself.....but..gurthukuvachhey situations...prathi second ki eduru avuthunnai...


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Eeroje matlada maa thathayya tho....


gud..lucky bro nuvvu
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